我们都遇到过改变我们生活的人。人们可以以积极或消极的方式改变你的生活。我的祖母埃斯特以一种积极的方式改变了我的生活。基本上是我祖母养大了我。她改变了我的生活，我很高兴她这么做了。我的祖母是一个非常勤劳的女人。她很重视教育，尽管她在童年时从未接受过教育。她帮助我、给我建议的方式真的让我很感动。这让我在学校学习非常努力。我的祖母教会我容忍某些人和某些情况是多么重要。 She told me showing people respect will get you a long way in life, as well as seeking help in hard times and facing problems instead of running away from them. Because of this, I try to see the good in people and over look the bad. When I have a problem I think of ways to solve it. When I cannot find a solution I ask for help before things get worse. She was very humble and kind. She did not let people take her kindness for weakness. She did not mind helping people. When you are wrong you have to swallow your pride and say your sorry. That is one thing she always did and taught me. The word love is used to often these for small things that do not matter. Few people understand what love really is. It is not trait we are born with like the color of our eyes. We have to learn to love ourselves and others. If you love some one you show it through actions and help them change if they need to.